What is Life Coaching

Life Coaching is an action, and future-oriented collaborative process to help people clarify the gap between where they feel they are and where they want to be. 

Life Coaching helps people:
• Clarify decisions
• Get unstuck
• Make plans
• Grow your self-awareness and self-confidence
• Connect with your purpose
• Achieve goals
• Create the life you want
The focus is on personal growth and change looking foward.

Life coaches uses a variety of tools to help people. I use the following tools in consultation with the client:
• Reflection tools (written exercises and talking)
• Action plans
• Journaling
• Reiki energy work
• Shamanic Practices
• Hypnotherapy
• Art for Wellness drawing

These tools are used to help the client access more deeply their inner wisdom and insights to think and decide not just with the mind but with their emotions.




How Do I Approach Life Coaching

There are many different styles of life coaching, and choosing the right coach is a deeply personal decision.

My approach to coaching is grounded in the belief that meaningful and lasting change happens most fully when we engage the whole person; body, emotions, mind, and spirit. These parts of ourselves are deeply interconnected, and creating change often involves bringing greater awareness, understanding, and alignment to the different layers of our experience.  

Through Aligned Clarity, I draw from a range of supportive approaches including life coaching, reflection, Reiki, hypnotherapy, movement, sound, creative practices, and holistic techniques.

Together, these approaches can support deeper self-awareness, insight into patterns and beliefs, emotional exploration, and meaningful personal growth.  

Each session is personalized to the unique needs, goals, and comfort level of the individual. Clients are always active participants in the process, and we work collaboratively to explore the approaches that feel most supportive and aligned for them.

Let's connect for a free chat to explore what is best for you.

What is a Coaching Session Like

I always recommend beginning with a complimentary Discovery Chat so we can connect, get to know each other, and explore what you are looking for support with. During this initial conversation, I invite clients to share a brief overview of what feels important in their life right now, what they would like to change, and what they hope to move toward. I also explain my approach and answer any questions about the process.  

If it feels aligned to continue, we then schedule a longer complimentary session to explore things more deeply. In this conversation, we take time to better understand your experiences, goals, challenges, and the areas of life you would like to focus on moving forward.  

From there, we collaboratively create a personalized approach based on your unique needs, goals, and comfort level. Clients are always active participants in shaping the direction and flow of the work.  

Sessions may include conversation, reflective practices, guided exercises, creative exploration, and other supportive approaches depending on what feels most beneficial and aligned. Throughout the process, we regularly reflect on progress, insights, experiences, and any adjustments that may be supportive along the way.  

My intention is for each session to feel supportive, collaborative, grounded, and meaningful — creating space for greater self-awareness, clarity, personal growth, and forward movement.  

I believe gentle approaches can still create meaningful change, while also recognizing that at times a compassionate nudge may help support growth and movement forward. All sessions are confidential and offered within a calm, respectful, and non-judgmental space. 

At the heart of Aligned Clarity is the belief that meaningful and lasting change becomes more integrated when we engage the whole person — body, emotions, mind, and spirit.




How I Approach Life Coaching

Every coaching journey is personalized and shaped collaboratively based on the unique needs, goals, pace, and experiences of the individual.

 Many people seek support after struggling with an issue or pattern for a long time, and meaningful change often unfolds gradually through reflection, awareness, practice, and ongoing support.

Coaching is a process of gently exploring and understanding the layers that may be influencing how we think, feel, respond, and move through life.  

Following the initial complimentary sessions, I may recommend a suggested number of sessions based on the client’s goals and the depth of the work they would like to explore together. This recommendation is always flexible and open to discussion as the process unfolds.  

In most cases, I find that regular sessions help create continuity, momentum, and deeper integration of the work. Weekly sessions are often ideal, though biweekly sessions may also be supportive depending on the client’s needs, schedule, and capacity.  

Change can sometimes feel uncomfortable, especially when we begin moving beyond familiar patterns and ways of being. Resistance is a natural part of the human experience, and together we work with compassion, awareness, and curiosity to better understand what may be holding things in place and how to move forward in a more supportive and aligned way.  

At the same time, I deeply understand that life can shift unexpectedly, and flexibility is always part of the process. Sessions can be adjusted, paused, or adapted as needed through open and honest communication.  

I believe the most supportive coaching relationships are built through collaboration, commitment, mutual respect, and a shared willingness to engage honestly in the process of growth and change.

Let’s connect through a free Discovery Chat to explore whether life coaching feels supportive for you at this time.

Frequently Asked Questions

Yes, anyone can work with a life coach, but someone struggling with more severe problems like depression, PTSD or mental illness would be best to seek the care of medical professional as a first strategy. Once their struggle is controlled and well managed, then with the permission of their medical professional, they could work a life coach.

Life coaching is a collaborative process led by the client's request and feedback. The coach will present a possible plan to the client however the process is fluid and adapts with feedback from the client.

Coaching usually lasts through several sessions, until the client has achieved the result they were looking for. This is also flexible. Every client is unique and the approach, the tools used, the reflections are adapted to each client and reviewed at every session.

Life coaches are not medical professionals, therapists, social workers or counselors unless they have separate training and certification in one of those fields. Most life coaches do not.

Life coaches do not diagnose, treat illnesses of the body or mind, and do not do therapy. They offer guided support to help people with their life goals. The focus is on the client's personal development.

The life coaching industry is not regulated like the medical industry so anyone with the desire to help others can call themselves a life coach. They draw on their life experience and personal wisdom to help people.

Certified life coaches are people who have taken life coaching training certified by a reputable organisation like the International Coaching Federation (ICU). These coaches will use their training and life experience to help you.

I am a Certified Life Coach with training through the Coaching Academy, Gabriela Embon, and a member of the International Coaching Federation.

Some life coaches specialise in areas like career or life transition, and others are generalists. You can decide if you want to work with a coach that specialises in your topic area or with a generalist.

I am a generalist and I work with people who are seeking to make change in their life. The best results happen when people are committed to the clarity or change they seek.

You have several things to clarify first. Ask yourself:
* What do I to get out of life coaching sessions? What is the issue(s) and what is the goal?
* Do I want to work with a Certified coach or is it not a preference?
* Do I have a preference to work with a male or female, young or older?
* How far am I willing to travel to meet with a life coach?
* Do I prefer to work in person, online or it doesn't matter?

Once you have these answers start looking, online is a good place, as most life coaches have websites or an online presence. Look at the what they offer, their experience, their specialties, if any, and how do you feel as you read about them. Listen to your gut as you want to feel comfortable with this person.

It is also important to check their availability as regular meetings are key to keeping momentum towards success.

Look at the price and make sure it is within your budget. Some life coaches offer packages for several sessions that reduce the overall cost.

Most life coaches ensure confidentiality of client information, but it is also good to make sure of this.

Ask about the number of sessions the coach typically recommends as this can vary depending on the complexity of the client's request and the coaches work style.

Ask about cancellation and rescheduling. You do want to commit to regular meetings, but family and life commitments can sometimes derail the plan. It is good to know in advance what the coach's policy is.

Life coaches can bring other non-regulated modalities into their work and they can bring regulated modalities into their work if they are registered or certified in that modality.

For example, a life coach can bring in Reiki, energy work, drawing, breath work, dance, meditation, and other techniques to help people gain clarity and achieve their goal.
 
As well, a life coach can not do psychotherapy or counseling unless they are trained and registered in that field.

I have trained in Reiki, Shamanic Work, Sound work, Breath work and Art for Wellness and I bring all of those options into my work. Using these options is always discussed first and depends on the client's preference. 

Self-help books are wonderful, helpful, and have I read many. However, they are also generic and many not completely apply to your situation and may not give you all the tools that would be most helpful.

A coach is a live person bringing all of their training and experience to help you reach your goals. Every session is be tailored to you. All the discussions flow according to your responses. Working with a life coach, instead of a book, is very collaborative and flexible. The coach listens to you and adapts throughout the session.

You can do both, but if you find self-help books are not enough then consider contacting a life coach.

Check the FAQ section, 'How to choose a life coach' for some information. Beyond that you want to know:
* How long is the session?
* What is the frequency of sessions? Weekly is very common.
* Will there be homework?
* How is progress measured?
* Is the plan adjusted as we go along or not?
* What are the resources and tools you use?
* Are you a member of a recognised coaching organisation?

Before the first session, as much as possible, in your mind, set clear intentions around your problem and your goal. If this is a struggle, continue with the first meeting, as the coach can be of help to clarify the issue with you.

I get it. It's a big decision and it is a commitment in time and resources. If you feel that you have tried other options and you are not where you want to be in terms of clarity around your issue, consider a life coach.

Most life coaches will not require you to commit before they have met with you in a call or a meeting. You have the opportunity to explore, in a first meeting, if a life coach is the next step in your journey.

Reach out, test the waters, then make your decision.

I have coached myself my entire life working towards feeling functional and now towards empowerment. This lifetime of self-improvement guides me to deeply understand the challenges that face in their lives, and helps me hold a compassionate, supportive, yet structured space for people to move past their issue and towards their goal.

In industry, before I started this path of training in coaching, I worked as a project and change manager, so I was coaching my employees and colleagues all of the time to ensure success in achieving the project and change goals.
 
In 2023, I started training in using Neurographica (an Art for Wellness technique) as a coaching tool. In 2025, I trained in life coaching with a certified academy. I have been coaching people since 2023. I also bring many years of adjacent experience in my industry career and specific experience in life coaching.

I am a heart-centered person and my focus is on the client, their request, their progress, and assisting them to reach their goal.

You are warmly invited to learn more in a free initial discover meeting.

Client Words

 Heart Centred Coaching

"Debbie’s coaching sessions came at exactly the right time for me. I was going through a rough patch and during her session, I felt like I could finally relax. Her calm, soothing energy created a space where I felt completely safe and supported. Each week, she gave me thoughtful exercises that brought a lot of clarity. They helped me look at past experiences from a new perspective—seeing the positives in them and understanding how they’ve shaped the person I am today. I’m truly grateful for Debbie and the work we did together. Thank you so much, Debbie!"

Michela

More About Debbie

Debbie is a Certified Reiki Master, Life Coach, Art for Wellness drawing coach, and energy worker offering sessions in Pointe-Claire, Montreal West Island and online to help you reconnect with your inner wisdom, gain clarity, get unstuck, and create meaningful change in your life.

If you are:
•Feeling stuck or unsure of your direction?
 •Struggling to make clear decisions?  
•Looking for clarity and purpose?  

Let's connect to explore your needs and goals.

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